Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

> Changeable said: > My husband enjoys penetrative sex quite regularly, roughly every few days. However, even after being kept locked and denied for that short duration, I find it hard to last at all. I end up stopping and withdrawing multiple times. > > She likes watching me wrestle with the sensation this way, though she has noted > that I ought to work on lasting longer. > > It just feels like a tall order to me. To those who have trained their bodies to avoid climax- what was your method? I'd be eager to hear from you > Click to expand... Make sure to practice during the times when you are permitted. Keep your focus on her needs. Also, there are several numbing creams available. You can wear a condom over them so that the cream doesn't dull her pleasure. If she is an understanding partner, she will support you in learning how to serve her more effectively.

Applying a small amount of Oragel or similar dental gel around the glans can help improve your control. Pair that with a Durex Prolong Condom, and you'll find it difficult to climax even if you are pushing hard for it. You still need to stay aware, but reaching the peak becomes much harder. I really enjoy when my wife allows this because I can exert myself to cum while feeling like her personal [[dildo]]. It is possible to get overly excited (on my part) and need a pause. Being locked up again feels both painful and exciting after one of these sessions.