Back when I first entered the world of chastity, the idea appealed to me as a different type of kink. FLR wasn’t really my thing, and I was quite stubborn about topping from below. It took some time for this shift, but eventually my wife adopted a strong dominant role, transforming our dynamic into one where I serve her. She is my queen; I am here to satisfy her and bring joy to her life. Instead of the initial plan allowing me an intercourse-based orgasm every fortnight, I now welcome frequent CBT sessions mixed with occasional ruined releases. When we do have sex, it comes with the rule that I must wear a sheath along with numbing cream. PIV orgasms are permitted but kept rare, without any strict schedule.
If someone had predicted early on that my chastity would evolve into me acting as her devoted housekeeper and personal masseuse—receiving pleasure mostly through kicks to the nuts while only ejaculating inside her every few months—and said I’d actually enjoy it all, I would have called them mad.
What unexpected things did you discover you liked or ended up loving that are now central parts of your chastity experience?