Introductions discussion

My romantic life has been fairly standard. I am in my thirties, heterosexual, with children and a home along with a dog. I began courting and wed my wife roughly ten years ago. Early on she would occasionally mention that this was a female-led dynamic and that she held the dominant role between the sheets. Mostly these were lighthearted or hopeful remarks. Back on our honeymoon we experimented slightly with anal play, but truthfully I wasn’t quite ready for it yet. It left me feeling uneasy and I never experienced that earth-shaking p-gasm. Usually I was above her, or testing her boundaries regarding her bottom or other fetish interests she wished to explore. Occasionally however she would seize control. It gave me the sensation of her taking my own penis and penetrating my insides with it. Some years ago my fascination with anal matters became impossible to ignore and I began training myself using toys that I kept hidden away. Then it occurred… While browsing for intimate accessories I spotted some cock cages. I did some research and learned about the neurological impacts and how this could benefit our partnership and improve my orgasm quality. I resolved to give it a go for at least an hour. That single hour stretched into four, then six, then twelve, then a full day, two days. Now I am serving out an open-ended period after being released earlier today so I can please my wife and handle my hygiene routine. I got lazy and failed to do what was expected of me. ♂️ The majority of the time, my confined penis feels like a small, moist, leaking clitoris. If this is how women feel when they are aroused, I completely grasp why it must be so delightful even without direct stimulation.