Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

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Is anyone else locked up to prevent wanking?. Until recently I used to wank at least five times a day, as well as any sex that came along. We decided that something had to be done about this addiction, so my partner became my keyholder.
I went cold turkey when my KH left me locked for a week. No amount of begging would persuade her to release me, and after a couple of days, I resigned myself to being chaste.
My release was wonderful.
My KH released me, then supervised me in the shower to stop me wanking. Once she had washed and shaved me it was time for the real fun to start...

member_e1641a6ac8 · Answer

that's a lot of wanking.
It's good that you gave up your key to a good hand. I would let her know that bits underneath should be kept monitored closely for the first few weeks, but yeah, I guess she is doing good enough job.
Lastly, make sure either you don't get burnt out on chastity. It's really fun at first, but some couples lose interest once it pass through that initial rush thing.
Cheers.

member_05240902ed · Answer

I'm not allowed to wear a cage or to masturbate

member_381064b05f · Answer

> Kelly64 said:
> Is anyone else locked up to prevent wanking?. Until recently I used to wank at least five times a day,
> Click to expand...
Seriously, how does anybody have time for this? Between work, family, and social obligations, I used to be lucky to have one opportunity a week.

member_c30eb3d72d · Answer

Control of my masturbation habit is one of the primary purposes of my being locked. Masturbation is selfish and disrespectful, and distracts from my attention and submission to my wife. I believe, unfortunately for you, that masturbation is an addiction like alcoholism and that one is never "cured" but only in recovery, so may need to spend years being locked before she will be safe from your habit. I'm not there yet.

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