Hey everyone, my GF and I have dabbled with chastity intermittently for a little while now. Like most men here, I brought the idea to her and she is more than willing to go along, giving full effort in taking control of the keys and keeping me locked up, only letting me out when she desires. I love this setup and can wear the cage 24/7 with zero discomfort. Dealing with constant horniness has its hurdles but is manageable. That’s not my main issue. What I struggle with is more the mental aspect of being locked in the cage. I want to stay locked for her and really embrace this lifestyle until it becomes a normal, unspoken rule that I am to be locked 24/7. It gets tricky when I’m around friends or in everyday life outside of sexual contexts. I’m a very masculine guy. I hunt and fish. Love watching football and sports with the guys. Sometimes I feel like I’m less of a man for wanting to live this way. How did you guys get past this and turn it from just a fantasy into reality?
Masculinity is a personal opinion. What control I give my wife over me has zero bearing on the man I am. In fact, it makes me more manly, confident and loving. Other wives have complimented mine on how perfect we are for each other. At the end of the day if you are happy and your wife is happy, who gives a damn what anyone else would think? They won't even know, so there's no point stressing over such things. Do you regret the decision? I had those thoughts early on as well, but they fade fast as the good replaces any doubt. Enjoy the ride. It's a blast and personally I wouldn't have it any other way, even if I was given a choice.
Sometimes I've had similar feelings, and it can be a bit embarrassing (but privately). There really isn't a magic bullet other than to just work past that moment. For all you know, you're not the only one there who's locked. I find that when I'm locked and out in public, I forget all about the cage. I've walked away many times from really cute young cashiers and only then remembered that I'm secured in a device.
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