I’ve been in denial for twelve days now. For the past three or four of those, I get blueballs almost immediately whenever something stirs my interest. That isn’t even the worst part; it’s this ache that lingers for hours or lasts all day which is really getting to me. Can anyone suggest a way to ease it?
Just let time pass and accept the pain. I usually start feeling it around the two-week mark too. Be cautious though; during this phase, I've experienced wet dreams or sudden releases in my sleep. It's crucial not to touch yourself. I have managed 31 days without a single drop of thick white seed leaving my shaft. But that was an exception. If your rules permit and you're open to it, prostate milking can help relieve some of the tension. I'm restricted myself; my wife enjoys keeping me full and ready for her use. Still, don't stress too much. Try to endure it. It's all part of the journey. Your body knows how to handle things on its own if you let it be. Get moving with some exercise, and you'll find your rest improves.
Hmm, I suffered terrible blue balls recently, much like what happened with my second girlfriend back in 2005 when we first started (so I recognize the feeling), just last Friday. It was quite painful and achy throughout the day and into the evening. Then around Saturday morning... it sort of stopped, no release and no erection. Nothing since then. This is now over 31 days in. Not sure if that helps much at all though. However, given you're dealing with constant discomfort right now, maybe consider what others have recommended.