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member_a820842a37 · 2026-09-12T15:03:29.000Z · 5 replies

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2026-09-12T15:03:29.000Z #1

I’ve shared my interest in finding someone to serve as a sub or subservient partner under me, acting either as a domme’s counterpart or keyholder. I got quite a few replies, but I’m puzzled why these potential subs feel compelled to brag about how turned on they are and their weekly masturbation counts. Are they trying to impress me? Am I supposed to sympathize with them? Will that actually catch my eye?

Besides, what makes you think I’d be drawn to the idea of a sub licking my feet—or even my backside for that matter? I truly don’t care about your personal fetishes; please read my profile closely (read it twice if necessary) and realize that kind of thing really doesn’t appeal to me.

I’m not here to help you satisfy your sexual desires; show some respect and explain how you can serve me. Everything else, I just don’t care about.

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2026-09-13T02:00:24.680Z #2

It’s unfortunate that most people responding to your post are like the ones you’ve been getting. Many of these less thoughtful individuals enjoy expressing their opinions more than actually doing what is asked. If they were accepted and made to comply, they’d be the first to beg for release because something hurt or felt uncomfortable, claiming they couldn’t possibly handle your requests. It’s a pity for the few sincere ones who are truly looking; those rare opportunities get ruined by the noisy crowds. I do hope you find someone genuine.

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2026-09-13T16:04:20.840Z #3

They assume that because you hang out on a fetish site, you must be insatiable and want to use them as sexual slaves. Their own sexual satisfaction (achieved through denial) is their top priority. The first step for them would be realizing they aren’t true subs or slaves; rather, they are enthusiasts of the submission *fetish*. The worst place to find actual subs is on fetish sites. Vanilla subs who don’t demand heavy fetishes make the best partners.

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2026-09-14T07:12:24.680Z #4

As Miss Lucy pointed out, most "subs" applying to your offer are just horny guys hunting for their next sexual thrill:/ I’m sorry if this seems harsh, but I hope you find someone real.

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2026-09-14T17:56:40.040Z #5

I sometimes wonder if these men ever picture themselves as the women they message. Who in their right mind would enjoy having a stranger lick their butthole? I can’t think of any scenario where that wouldn’t be utterly repulsive.

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2026-09-15T09:46:52.520Z #6

The one part of *chastity* that baffles me is how many men masturbate while fantasizing about being chaste. Don’t they see the irony? The ones I’ve met seem to think going without an *orgasm* for two days is something to celebrate. These are the same idiots who put even me off, so I can only imagine what it’s like for a woman. Actually, I don’t have to guess. Mistress Lucy’s ever-growing list of dreadful messages describing this exact problem shows just how backward many men are. Plus, all that porn catering to them visually proves it.

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