Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Hey everyone, I’m glad to be joining you all. I haven’t been in chastity long, and my wife is the one holding the key.. After I persuaded her to give it a shot and handed over my keys, she has gradually become more at ease with the concept. It’s now nearly 4 weeks since I’ve been locked up. For two of those weeks, I kept hold of the keys before passing them to my wife on Valentine’s Day.. This is also the longest period I have stayed in this state; previously, three weeks was my limit. I’m experiencing constant arousal, and she teases me through the cage about once a week for half an hour. Aside from that teasing, it seems as if her husband no longer has a cock at all. The metal birdcage design is quite open, so I rarely need to take it off for cleaning or other upkeep. Still, evening times can sometimes make the cage feel uncomfortable, particularly when I’m relaxing, and I’ve started wondering when she’ll let me out. Surprisingly/excitngly, she told me that’s not up to me since she holds the power. That was unexpected because it doesn’t match her usual demeanor. The other day I asked again about my release date, and she replied, “never if you don’t change your ways. I’d rather flush them down the toilet than unlock you ever again. You married an evil bitch, so now you’ll get one.” Hearing that made me incredibly aroused yet simultaneously fearful. I enjoy being in chastity and pleasing her through other means, but the prospect of remaining locked with no release on the horizon still frightens me. I usually have two drinks and smoke outside every other day to unwind after work, habits she dislikes. I’m unsure if changing these will help secure my release. Has anyone gone through something similar? Did it come to an end? How does prolonged lock-up change a man in chastity? Writing this already has me dripping because my balls are so full.