Hello and thank you for taking the time to read.
My spouse and I are newcomers here. We’ve always had a very active sex life together, sharing intimacy most nights—we’re both still fairly young and clearly quite into one another.
Lately, over the last few months, we’ve been experimenting with T&D. While I’m not currently caged, I hope to start that journey down the road if it suits her needs too.
Each evening my wife teases me relentlessly until she gets anywhere from two to five orgasms (O’s). Although I can usually keep myself from cumming even during PIV, there are times—typically around one week in—where everything just leaks out with little or no movement needed. It doesn’t feel like a complete orgasm but more of a reset; the next day brings that heavy sensation as well. She also notes my reduced obsession.
Our main question is: what options do we have to extend denial time? We both want longer periods between releases! I suspect it’s due to fluid buildup because I often notice feeling extremely full in the days leading up to release. What steps can help prolong things without stopping our PIV sex or teasing/edging routines, which we enjoy greatly?
Could techniques like milking or achieving those “bleeding O’s” reduce pressure enough for extended denial? Or is it simply a matter of time, practice, and patience building up to longer stretches?
Thanks again! Hoping fellow members share some great advice.:-)