Nearly five months back, my wife denied me sex when she started an affair with another man. Two months ago, she decided to keep me locked in chastity without any release at all. Even though she has split up with her lover, she chose to maintain both the chastity and the denial because she wants me to serve as her slave.
For two months I have had no release or even milking, and for nearly five months now I haven’t had sexual relations with my wife. I am not permitted oral sex, nor kissing her hand, or even seeing her naked body.
At the beginning, I was confused and nervous.
However, over time I observed a dramatic shift in my behavior and attitude toward my Mistress/Wife.
For ten years we had a standard marriage with regular sex. I grew accustomed to my wife and took her for granted, becoming lazy about doing what she wanted while she handled most of the household chores and errands.
After five months of denial and two in chastity, my behavior and attitude transformed, as did how I view my wife.
Now I see her as a Goddess. I worship her. It makes me very happy if she allows me to kiss her hand.
Whenever she comes home, I kneel to kiss her feet, and I do the same when she leaves.
I have become highly attentive to her needs and demands. If she asks for something, I jump on it immediately. Now I handle all domestic duties: cleaning, cooking, ironing her clothes, running errands, and following every order. She no longer has to lift a finger at home.
I am not doing this hoping for release or sex; rather, because I now see her as my Goddess and feel joy in pleasing her.
My wife noticed the change and became more dominant and bossy.
In the past, if she wanted something done, she would ask kindly. If I didn’t do it, she would simply get frustrated and handle it herself.
Now, she gives orders directly: “Get me coffee,” or “Do the laundry,” or “Go out now and buy this and that.” I immediately jump to fulfill her wishes.
This was not how I acted for those ten years. Back then, I was lazy and disliked doing things.
Today I see my wife as my Goddess, owner, and Mistress. I have started to realize just how beautiful she is. It feels like I am falling in love with her again, as if we are on a new honeymoon.
My wife is happy now and satisfied with my behavior. Yesterday she asked me: “Why didn’t you behave this way during the past ten years of our marriage? I would never have left you if you were acting like this.”
I had no answer. I changed, as though I am a new person. I feel very submissive to my wife and happy serving her and fulfilling all her wishes.
Can chastity and sex denial exert such a strong effect on changing a man’s behavior and attitude?
Has anyone here experienced this kind of personality shift after being in chastity and experiencing denial? Will it continue?
What should I do to maintain this new behavior?
I look forward to hearing your opinions, advice, and stories about how chastity and denial changed you and the way you deal with your wives, Mistresses, or female partners.
Also to the ladies here: did chastity and denial change your male partner’s personality and behavior?
Please let me know what you think and tell us about your experiences.
Thank you all in advance and best regards.