Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

@n2toys gifted me a Lovense Edge for Christmas; it is a Bluetooth-connected remote prostate butt plug, and we are very impressed so far. I know some earlier reviews were mixed because of connection issues. We have experienced a few disconnections but nothing major, and when they do occur, reconnecting happens quickly. The only drawback I’ve noticed with the Edge is that it can slip out easily. The Hush butt plug seems like it might stay in better, though you lose those dual vibration motors; however, using a butt plug harness was an easy fix and feels nice to wear. I bought a female-style harness which works perfectly while caged without needing to modify a traditional one with the cock ring. This device is INTENSE - the motor vibrations are the strongest I have ever experienced. When left on its highest setting, it literally exhausts me and drives me crazy. My Wife loves controlling the vibrations from her phone; both motors can be adjusted independently, offering infinite pattern options. You can also sync them with music from the phone or use the mic to pick up sounds/voices from my Mistress. It might sound silly, but it feels more personal knowing my Mistress is controlling the plug, either by directly manipulating the screen or selecting a pre-programmed pattern. I took a short business trip last week for the first time since getting this device. For two nights after work in the hotel room, my Wife played with me remotely. The first night she was enjoying her movie, bouncing between direct manipulation and patterns so she didn’t have to focus on what to do next. The second night involved more active participation from her side; the app includes a text function that adds to the personal touch. At one point, I was on all fours humping wildly in an attempt to relieve my caged cock but couldn’t get much relief. Both nights were great. When we play together, my Mistress enjoys manipulating the vibrations and watching my reactions while I worship her. Last night our oldest child was working late. We went to bed about an hour before she was due home. I was strapped down to the bed with ten ratchet ropes (four on each side: wrist, ankles, thighs, knees, plus opposing rope between wrist and knees) along with nipple clamps. I was teased, vibrated, and tickled while remaining caged. Desperate to grow and feel my Wife’s touch, she told me she wouldn’t uncage me until our oldest returned. Once home, she removed the lock and left me alone; I eventually pushed the cage halfway off in frustration as she went out for a visit. My Wife knows I enjoy trying to grow against the cage. Removing the lock and allowing the cage to release its tension was her way of being sadistic - I can still picture the smile on her face when she explained her intentions. She didn’t use the remote function while away, just left me on a twenty-minute pattern that drove me wild with intensity, ramped down to a constant vibration for an euphoric state, and then suddenly spiked in intensity to jolt me back to reality. When she returned, my Wife removed the cage completely and kept me tied to the bed. She teased and tormented me with her nails, nipple clamps, and controlling the vibrations - often using various programmed patterns while teasing me; she had the phone screen beside her and really enjoyed watching the vibration graph drop in intensity giving me a moment to catch my breath before the oncoming spike hit. I am now just over three months without a real orgasm. My Wife has grown to love denying me and finding sadistic things to do, always lovingly as she knows I crave the denial and torture - her smile while teasing is absolutely beautiful. Overall, this was very much worth the investment. Side note: Last night tied to our bondage (massage) table with legs suspended above by the winch, wearing a harness gag (also strapped down), cock bound with rope, and then pegged intensely for an unknown duration - all I know is my Mistress’ stamina has improved significantly…:eek::love::)