Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Sounds like nonsense to me, but who am I to judge.

I reread the original post yesterday and after reading this one, I really have my doubts this is true. There are just too many red flags that sound more like 'fantasy' than reality. Of course, I'm not going to say I know for sure one way or the other, but...

Married 31 years and my wife had those feeling - loved me but sex the last 4 years has been only she gets off and very rarely - Menopause and being sick and surgery has taken a toll on her sexually She at times feels like roommates- I hug her daily tuck into bed nightly kiss her We hold hands on walks No slave situation I just try to help her and be supportive So I kind of understand Yes I like to be chastised but she has no interest in it So I self lock

If this is actually true, you are being used. From the outside, I highly doubt that she loves you but probably enjoys what you provide. If your ok with this, fine. I suspect she is keeping you around untils "something better" comes along. Unless this "relationship" really floats your boat, its probably time to move on. She needs more then you can provide and you deserve more then she is willing to give.

OMG...this is an odd situation...I agree with @mcfeely! If this is a true story, she is being quite self centered for someone that 1. Has cheated on you. 2. Is cutting you from sexual activity. It sounds like no remorse, for either. Normally, I would think when a couple needs to change their sexual expectations, their would be some understanding and compromises. Like, “hey, I don’t find you sexually attractive and would like to stop having sex with you. I will however give you handjobs and occasional bj’s”. This sounds like she doesn’t want to leave you because she is not financially secure enough, or has grown accustom to the things in the home that you provide. You might want to take a hard look at what kind of person would cut you off without remorse.

> truecuckold said: > Would a woman live with a husband while she doesn't have sexual desire for him? > Click to expand... Yes, that happens all the time. However, that's usually because the woman has next to zero sex drive due to things like menopause rather than being a selfish bitch.

> truecuckold said: > Hello everyone, > I talked about my relationship with my wife in a previous post . We are both in our early 40s and we have been married for 10 years . She used to cheat on me in the past and left me 3 times for other lovers but then came back to me . > We have beem > Yesterday we had an honest discussion about our life together . My wife told me that honestly she doesn't feel any sexual attraction to me . And that when we have sex she has to imagine that she is with someone else to be able to enjoy . > She told me that she still loves me but it's a different kind of love . Like what she would have for a pet or a close friend or relative, but not a sexual kind of love . > She said that the main reason why she left me before was that she didn't want to have sex with me . > But at the same time she loves me and doesn't want to leave me . > She told me that to save our marriage we will have new arrangements . We will live as a married couple but without sex . Our marriage will be sexless . I will be submissive to her and I will live with her as her " asexual " or " non sexual " slave husband . She will have the right to have sex with other men if she wants . Also she will have the right to have sex with me " if she wants " . > She said that for sure I will not have sexual intercourse " Penis in Vagina " with her . But for oral sex it will be possible for me to lick her, but only if she initiated it . I will not have the right to initiate any kind of sex . > I accepted these conditions . And actually this was my fantasy for a years . But it is always different when it becomes a reality . > Me and my wife didn't have sex since mid September 2018, so for more than 4 months by now . But I didn't know that she has a plan to cut me off sexually permanently . > I would like to know what you think about this . Does any of you have such kind of relationship with his wife? And do you think that if my wife doesn't want to have sex with me it means that she doesn't love me anymore? Would a woman live with a husband while she doesn't have sexual desire for him? > I would like to know your opinions and advices . > Thank you in advance for your comments and advice .. > Click to expand... Sounds like you need a new wife. Belive me the very first time she would have cheated on me . The marriage would be over . NO EXCUSE. That is not a marriage. You are being USED.

I think you need to find out if she's expecting a "no PIV sex slave", which sounds like your fantasy, or a servant. There are a few factors that you nees to think about... like who's making the money, who controls the money, do either of you have any real commitment, etc... Dangerous waters ahead IMHO

This is nothing but fantasy.

I would like to thank all who commented on my post here. I appreciate your opinions and advises I would like to confirm that my story is 100% real, not a fantasy as some said. I know it's a strange story, but this was my life for 10 years. Many people think that I am crazy that I stayed with my wife in spite of her cheating and leaving me 3 times, but I really love her and I know she is not a bad person. She's just emotionally unstable. Regarding money, no she doesn't depend on me financially. Actually she earns much more than I do. So, she doesn't stay with me for financial reasons. She said that she loves me, but she doesn't see me as a sexual partner. I'm confused!!

> truecuckold said: > Regarding money, no she doesn't depend on me financially. Actually she earns much more than I do. So, she doesn't stay with me for financial reasons. > Click to expand... In that case, she doesn't want to have to pay you alimony and lose your free labor.