It happens during those chats where the conversation drifts; it might begin with something straightforward, like why you believe a certain person in some book felt driven to do whatever they did, and wind up discussing something completely unrelated.
In any case, at one point my Lady presented me what she calls simple challenges: she wondered if I could provide her 5 reasons for keeping men locked and denied; then, as she put it, offering a chance, give 5 reasons why a man ought to be permitted an orgasm or, for the KHs with stricter tendencies, give 5 reasons why a man should only have erections without climaxing. And naturally, the opposite side of that coin: give 5 reasons why a man shouldn’t even get an erection. I find all these quite intriguing… We’d both love to hear others’ thoughts on them… so please go ahead and share your views.