My stunning Queen truly enjoys every advantage of having me securely locked away! We share more closeness now compared to our ordinary days, yet she still prefers not to be the one steering or putting in the effort during play. I’ve always been the creative force and the leader in sex. She simply avoids overthinking or planning our activities; her preference is to unwind and savor them. When it comes to allowing me to release, however, she holds firm power and delights in denying me, so she does appreciate certain elements of control. It’s just that she hasn’t fully stepped up yet—and might never.
How do other couples manage similar dynamics?