Apologies if this has come up before, but how are partners of men (who feel they need to be caged) managing without regular penetrative sex? Are you missing it while playing along with your husband’s kink? Do you wish he would get over it and return to normal? Or are you enjoying the entire chastity setup? I’d love to hear your thoughts as I’m still trying to convince my wife of my peculiar cravings for being caged… thanks
Mrs Edge and I found a really good quality dildo, the Vixskin Boitoi (since renamed to something else). She normally doesn't care for toys, but this is so lifelike, and so similar to my own size and shape, that it's a 95% replacement. I use a Terra Firma harness from Stormy Leather, and it's such a good replacement option that she manages just fine. In fact, about that 95%? When I angle it low on my hips, she can feel my cage pressing her ass when we have sex, which has made her revive her opinion of letting me out. I warm it up in a mug of hot water, along with the lube, and she's been exceptionally happy. So much so that I've spent most of 2018 locked up, and don't expect anything else in 2019.
The feeling of a dildo has been one of my issues as well... I love PIV!!! aand haven't found a toy I like. So far nothing is like the real thing... due to work and issues with chastity lifestyle, he hasn't worn hhis cage longer than a few hours in months! And our sex life has suffered.. going from five times or more a week to maybe once a week with play or vanilla. ( Usually vanilla).. I miss being able to unlock him when I say, aand to use him when I like... ah. Chastity how I miss you...