After some time in real chastity (meaning no orgasm and no messing with his private parts), my husband starts whining to be released. That doesn’t work for me, the one holding the key, because I believe only a consistent denial of release is what truly counts! So he begins begging, which I really enjoy, but then after a few days it turns into mild displeasure and he asks for an unlock due to some pain or something. To be sure, as a responsible keyholder, I check out what’s happening down there. But 95% of the time, there is nothing wrong; it’s just his desire for free time. Handcuffs are good help at times to get him back into his cage even when he resists slightly. But usually one simple question suffices: “What do you want to do if I let you out? You know you want to masturbate while watching porn or reading erotic stories!” Then he feels a bit caught, and we have an agreement that if he masturbates while wearing his cage (his keuschi), all our chastity games stop and the expensive cage is thrown away. That helps keep him in line!! Have a nice xmas!
How long does "some period of time" last? I personally love the denial and can go several days with no stimulation at all, but I need some teasing eventually; denial without any teasing is a dealbreaker for me... It's also amazing how much more affectionate I become when teased relentlessly. Oh, I will definitely beg, but what Her Highness says goes!
> Sissy_Denise said: > "Begging is futile - You will remain caged!" at least until she decides, SHE has a need:p:lockkey: > Click to expand... Tell him begging not allowed. It's up to you when. Just add a day anytime he whines. If he is smart, he'll stop very quickly.
Her way or no play. The end-game scenario usually helps most guys get their heads right again. But only if you know...or are damn sure...that she means it. So ladies, my advice is that whatever you have said or will say in the future, be sure to stick to it so he knows you always mean what you say..... And by sticking to that 'personal rule, mantra or modus operandi' of standing firm on your words, you will make your own life much easier. For him, it makes things more simple to understand and put into perspective.
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