Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Having the right cage is a key part of it. What are you using and how does it fit?

Exercise and read a non-sexual/erotic book or something that fits your business interest. So for example ( I am not caged ) and I woke up hard ... I read one of my books and distracted myself.

> Matriachymale said: > Hi everyone, > This is a post meant for everyone I hope, but primarily other submissives and perhaps some Dommes as well. I’m seeking a bit of advice. It’s only been one week since I got locked up, yet I am already finding it difficult. I don’t wish to overwhelm my keyholder and Goddess with my issues, so I was hoping someone here could offer help. What strategies do you use to ease the frustration? How do you keep your mind occupied? Do any of you find nights challenging when there is no escape from getting a bit aroused and waking up in discomfort like me? I realize this might sound self-centered regarding my needs, but that isn’t my intention; I am trying to get past this obstacle. My goal is simply to be the best submissive for my Dominant as possible. I think about her constantly and strive always to please her because I truly do not want to let her down. Actually, scrap that thought—I absolutely cannot fail her; she means everything to me. Any advice would be greatly appreciated > Click to expand... Try channeling your lust into affection for her. I have learned to do it. It will take the edge off some . Also the right cage for you is very important . I like stainless steel . Night time erections are part of it. It will get easier over time. Try going to the bath rm then back to bed Wish you luck on your journey