For anyone stuck in a longer-term lockup… How long did you and your mistress experiment with chastity before she really embraced the concept of extended denial (around a month)? We’ve reached two weeks as our longest stretch so far. Initially, I worried it would be difficult, but after several one-to-two-week periods without release, I began to notice how low my mood drops in the 2-5 days following an orgasm. It’s gotten to where I’d rather have a longer denial (though with plenty of sex!) just to sidestep those lows. She doesn’t mind denying me much, but she hasn’t really pushed yet, and neither have I pressed her for more. I’ve mentioned that trying our first 30-day denial is something I could handle; I think we’ll get there soon. But this circles back to my main question: how long had you been in chastity before she decided on a month-long denial?
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My Goddess tried it early on. As we were learning and growing together, I got quite grumpy around the 10-12 day mark. Now that we both understand better, a month feels normal. We're heading into our second month now and it is... wow!
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