Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

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I've realized that I'm scared of anger. It's not just about getting my wife upset; I also dread feeling their disapproval. To spare myself the emotional sting, I go out of my way to be pleasant and keep everyone happy. At the same time, I hold back my own anger so as not to wound others. My main desire is simply to be loved by them, which makes it tough for me to voice my thoughts and feelings openly.
I'd love to know if this resonates with you all, particularly how your fear of anger ties into chastity and the experience of being controlled.

member_261c7352c4 · Answer

That sounds like a very typical reaction. Many people are deeply afraid of confrontation and will do whatever it takes to sidestep it.

member_d8d5d8a923 · Answer

You should ask yourself what lies at the root of your fear of anger. It could be a deeper issue where you undervalue your own worth, leading to an avoidance of conflict. Keep in mind that there's a distinction between controlled and uncontrolled rage. I struggle with managing my temper myself. As a younger person, I was quite difficult. Serving in the military helped me learn discipline. While I still have anger tendencies now, I've cultivated enough control so others don't always notice it. I channel my emotions and act on them without losing my cool entirely. If you decide to adopt a submissive role, ensure that choice comes from within rather than being driven by fear. Best wishes.

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