She doesn’t fit the mold of a traditional dominant, so she won’t enforce strict rules or hand out punishments. Still, she usually gets what she wants and never does anything against her will. I’m the one with the kinks in my personality, and it seems to suit her; she goes along with most of what I do. Perhaps I am topping from below, though that dynamic is shifting gradually.
I believe submissiveness is a trait common to most men in this community. We are mostly asking someone else to take charge of our penises. That act alone is highly **submissive** because it goes against societal expectations for "men."
She’s doing okay and slowly recovering from a fall; she’ll be using a wheelchair and walker for some time. No more pee treats or tease-and-deny sessions now. I wake her up every morning while masturbating. Sometimes she takes over, but the rule remains: “you can’t cum.” I had a ruined **orgasm** last week and a full-blown one about a month ago. She really enjoys ruined ones because there’s no down time, leaving me still horny. She also loves that she can just lie on the couch while I do everything for her. Once she is back on her feet, I hope she continues to insist that I handle all tasks. Life is good.