For anyone who has stayed in chastity for an extended period (months or even years), what psychological shifts have you noticed over time?
Were there any pleasant surprises, or perhaps some unpleasant ones? Did anything catch you off guard that you hadn’t anticipated? Any regrets so far?
I’ve only been locked for three months. The biggest surprise has been how much I actually miss the sensation of being secured. There have been a few times when I had to remove my cage—for heavy lifting or doctor visits—and honestly, it felt odd without it. I’d say I underestimated just how much my Wife (KH) enjoys this arrangement. She’s really embraced it. She loves our T&D sessions and the sight of me locked up. Seeing me suffer and beg for release gives her great satisfaction. She even had me order three more cages, so now I have different ones to wear around the house. She appreciates the attention I give her now and the orgasms she gets on demand. My only regret is that we didn’t start this journey twenty years ago.