Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I stepped away from the honor system roughly two months back…it was a way to let both my wife and I catch our breath from how intense it got when I only orgasmed every five to seven days without ever “cheating”. It really helped me focus at work, among other things. After about three weeks, she realized I wasn’t pursuing her much anymore, while I noticed my manhood felt far less sensitive and practically “shrunken.”\nSo, over the past month I’ve been gradually reducing the “cheating,” and this week was truly the first time I stayed patient for seven days straight for my love. That seems to be where our version of chastity has settled. It began with me wanting to strengthen our marriage, then getting a bit carried away with the kink, learning as we went over nearly two years. In this current phase, my wife asks that I wait patiently so she can reward me for being sweet and maintaining a positive attitude around the family…which, I love it…it’s just a gentle touch of control and accountability, nothing too domineering…just be a wonderful husband and stay patient until her feminine whims arrive. She’ll occasionally ask to be pampered…she enjoys resting her feet on my lap and gazing at me with rightful authority.\nShe knows how desperately I long for her, and she always extends things by a couple of days…last night she kind of pounced on me at 4am after turning me down and leaving me disappointed a few times. I woke up feeling radiant this morning…I don’t feel too let down when we play like this.\nAnyway…it’s been lovely…I value her company and attention so much more now…going to bed early to be with her, etc…\na quick update…hope everyone is thriving in their own journeys…