member_66c3685eda Newcomer Thread starter
I’ve been pondering this for ages. When I first got locked up by my mistress, it was a big adjustment. I managed about a day before cracking. As time went on, I became moody, unhelpful, and withdrawn. My head felt foggy because I hadn’t fully accepted the lock yet. It took me a couple of years to get back into it, but now that I’m doing Locktober, I’m thrilled. My mindset has shifted, and I feel good about being locked up. Has anyone else realized they need their mental state aligned first?