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This log or diary is going to blend a daily recap with random musings. It won’t strictly stick to “Male Chastity” topics, but I’ll share my perspective as I adapt to this new path for myself. With that said, let’s begin… September 30, 2018… It’s been exactly one month since I committed to chastity. My wife hasn’t taken the key yet, though I remain optimistic. I’ve sent her a couple of books on the subject and asked her to read them, but she might not have gotten around to it. During this period, I’ve helped her achieve several orgasms via oral sex. Oddly enough, feeling covered in her release brings me great contentment… cuddling afterward while she gently caresses my nipples makes me quietly whimper as I drift off. About three weeks into self-imposed lockup, I picked up a UTI (urinary tract infection), likely from the urethral tube insert, and had to take the cage off. Fortunately, it cleared up with pharmacy meds and cranberry juice, so today I put the cage back on — this time without the insert. October 1, 2018… We spent the evening in the family room watching TV. For most of that time, I was caressing my lovely wife, watching her relax and respond to my attention. We went to bed just before 10:00 pm. Once under the covers, I kept fondling her until my face found its place between her legs. My tongue and jaw got tired from all the continuous licking, flicking, and lapping at what brings me such joy; truly where my life centers. Soon she was cumming on my face, not just once but multiple times — at least three or four times. Again, even without an orgasm myself, I felt deeply satisfied… strange isn’t it… Later while cuddling, I asked if she had been enjoying these past few weeks, and she confirmed that she had. I also asked if she wanted to keep up this new routine, and she said yes. She did mention that nightly oral sex wasn’t always her favorite thing. I suggested she let me know when she wants it, but more importantly what kind of attention she prefers. She promised she would, then drifted off gently squeezing my right nipple. I followed soon after into sleep. I still hope she has read the books and taken some advice to heart, applying their suggestions to our relationship… October 2, 1018… Today wasn’t great. My wife came down with something. Nothing serious, just a 24-hour bug. But sick nonetheless. Complete with vomiting, chills, hot flashes, and generally feeling like death warmed over. I spent the day acting as nurse. Attending to her modest needs. After long experience (39 years of marriage), we’ve learned what each other need when “under the weather.” Mostly a quiet spot to rest, being left alone but not truly isolated – if you get my drift. So that’s what I tried to provide. Checking on her periodically, bringing water and food when she felt like eating, doing laundry, and handling various little tasks. Luckily by late evening she was feeling better, so we retired to bed soon after, falling asleep in each other’s arms. Life has a way of reminding us occasionally of what we possess and what we could lose. Today was a soft nudge, a subtle reminder. Never take the important people in your life for granted. Enjoy them every single day. Leave behind what doesn’t matter; draw near those that do…