I’ve been practicing chastity for ages. I read lots of stories and captions that really get me going, but when I look at real life, the picture they paint doesn’t match up well with what actually happens—at least in my case.
In those tales or descriptions, men seem to get increasingly horny as time goes on without an orgasm. Their cock gets rock hard almost instantly when their partner starts touching it. They even get stiff just seeing women in short skirts and tight tops walking by. The urge keeps building until they’re begging like crazy.
For me, though, it’s different. Sure, the desire to cum grows, and that submissive mindset kicks in. My thoughts drift toward sex more as I stay abstinent. But this “I’m about to explode if I don’t cum” feeling rarely hits during everyday life; it mostly happens during our playtime sessions.
Right now, I’m on the honor system (for a few reasons…), so my cage is accessible if needed. It’s quite warm lately, so I sleep without clothes. When my girlfriend reaches over to tease or caress me, things don’t immediately spring up and get rock hard. Women are pleasant to look at, but just seeing them doesn’t spike my need for release nor does it automatically make me stiff.
I really love how needy the guys in stories appear, but I never quite reach that state myself. How about you all? Is your experience similar, or is fantasy closer to reality for you?