Hi all. I’ve been drifting around the site as a guest for several months now, and the welcoming vibe here has prompted me to become a member. Chastity has shifted from being an occasional fantasy into actual life for my wife and myself. We’re both early in our Female-Led Relationship journey, yet it’s already transformed us significantly. I admitted my true submissive character at the beginning of 2018, and we are figuring out how that reshapes our dynamic. Initially, my wife wasn’t keen on managing my orgasms; I handled them myself back then. Lately, though, she has assumed formal control, mostly relying on the honor system with occasional cage enforcement to keep things in line. Right now, I’m enduring a five-day lock period and haven’t climaxed in roughly eight weeks. I love her deeply. Our first fifteen years together were very conventional, which brought some challenges, but since I finally owned my submissive side, she is adjusting well and enjoying the role we’ve stepped into. We are moving at a gentle pace, and I have truly learned to trust her judgment on what speed works for us. She took easily to taking over chores like cleaning and laundry! My mindset regarding denial is evolving in a pleasant way. This current locking phase, which began after an eight-week period of no release, has shown me that I genuinely value her sexual satisfaction more than my own. It isn’t just a fantasy she’s helping me achieve; it’s a method to keep the focus on her happiness. She has dealt with health problems affecting her libido due to pelvic pain. Instead of resenting our lack of intercourse, chastity helps me view this as ‘our’ issue rather than solely hers. Thanks for reading.
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