I’ve been wed to my stunning Goddess of a spouse for twelve years now. We have kept up male chastity for more than two years, and our union shifted into an FLR roughly a year back. At first She was somewhat unsure, but now She claims She can’t imagine life without it. I feel the exact same way. I love serving my wife in every possible manner. And our marriage is better today than ever before.
I am secured inside a Mature Metal Jailbird, which she has me wearing about 90% of the time. Typically I go anywhere from one to six months without an orgasm. Currently, She is enjoying Her longest streak since we began this chastity journey. It has been just over six months since my last release. As far as I know, She doesn’t intend to let me off anytime soon.
Our Female Led Relationship isn’t quite a strict master/slave dynamic, but it’s about as close as you can get with two kids at home and full-time jobs. I do pretty much everything she asks, usually without questioning it. When I behave well, I am rewarded. This often comes in the form of tease and denial sessions, time off from chores, or the privilege of giving Her an orgasm. Conversely, when I misbehave, I face punishment. Typically this involves a beating with her whip or paddle, though she also employs various other disciplinary methods. Some of her favorites include ice-cold showers, being confined to the closet, getting icy hot handjobs, and standing on our front porch wearing nothing but panties for hours.
Alongside our FLR, we practice findom as well. My wife holds control over all our finances. The checking accounts, savings, and safe deposit box are solely in her name. My salary goes directly into her account. She provides me with a monthly allowance ranging from zero to $100, based on my performance the previous month. I also have a credit card, but any purchase beyond fuel and groceries requires her approval. Only she can view those statements.
As my Goddess and I progress through our FLR, we are constantly broadening our horizons. Before starting chastity/FLR, my wife was considered somewhat “vanilla.” She lacked confidence and struggled with taking charge, particularly in the bedroom. Domestic discipline didn’t suit her well either; she wasn’t comfortable inflicting pain on me.
Now, She takes command anywhere and everywhere—at home, out in public, and in bed. She has absolutely no trouble delivering punishment. In fact, I believe she truly enjoys it. The attached image shows what a riding crop can do! [[Image: IMG_3194.JPG]](the referenced community page)
I am joining this forum to share my tales and learn from others’ experiences. Perhaps I will pick up new ideas and methods to further enhance my incredible bond with my Goddess.