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I hope this is the right spot to share experiences.. Even if nobody reads it, it’s nice to have a place for us in chastity relationships! Currently I’m locked most of the time. When we began with a cage (about a year back) it was just for hours during the day rather than overnight. When she started denying me orgasms, she usually let me cum about once a week. (She prefers multiple daily ones herself.) Now, she has me going roughly once a month for my release. Usually these happen on weekends when we have extended playtime after she’s had enough of her own pleasure (10, 12 sometimes more or less), and then she often lets me fuck her. Yesterday after she’d finished four rounds, she told me to take off the cage. I got out of bed removed it and returned quickly. What I expected was a shift where she would penetrate me so I could enjoy an incredible orgasm. Instead, I received a ruined hand job and ejaculated all over my chest. She then scooped it into a cup and made me drink it! I’ve done the cleanup before but there’s something special about doing it when mixed with her juices while you lick her clean. Drinking from a cup feels very demeaning! Then she ordered me to go lock back up! I asked “That didn’t count as my monthly orgasm after 30 days, did it?” She replied “Yes, you got your cum out. How and when that happens is entirely up to me.” So after caging myself again and showering, I went grocery shopping, prepared lunch and dinner, and changed the oil in my car. This morning I was thinking she might just be mind-fucking me and perhaps today I’d finally get actual sex with her. She started playing with me by making me strain against the cage. She had me finger herself to orgasm. After a minute or so of cuddling, she proceeded to give me my breakfast order and told me to get up and make it. So I made her breakfast, tidied the bed, put away two loads of laundry (I washed last night) and am now working on meal prep for our lunches this week while she is out shopping and getting a mani/pedi. I love our life and this lifestyle but it isn’t always easy or fun.