I’ve been in chastity with no orgasm for 47 days now. At least I have another 54 days left, though it could be up to six more months at the worst case. Once I pass that four-week mark, my ability to get an erection and climax seems to fade away. My penis tucks itself inside so well that my wife can barely touch it anymore.
We actually went to bed for sex two nights in a row, which is pretty rare around here. She kept pointing out how useless I am while she enjoyed her own toe-curling orgasm with her vibrator. She tried edging me, but nothing worked; I couldn’t even edge myself properly. This situation makes it easier to stay denied, though when the time comes for my release, I probably won’t be able to give one—or if I do, like in previous times—it will be a weak climax.
As I mentioned before, my wife’s orgasms are improving steadily. Her toes curled up and she wasn’t even really feeling it until late; she only climaxed because I urged her on since she knows we can share that moment. She reaches an orgasm quite quickly now. I feel so lucky to have her as a partner compared to our previous girlfriend, who took half an hour or more of exhausting effort.
Another factor is that I restarted taking the antidepressant I used before to help with nighttime sleep. It works wonderfully for sleeping, but one side effect is anorgasmia. No matter what she does, it stops me from climaxing. I’ve dealt with this before; our solution was simply for me to skip the pill for two days, have my orgasm, and then resume taking it until next month. My other anti-depressant prevents erections.
So, between having a wife who prefers sex with women (no penetration has happened in years that we can remember) and being on medication that blocks both erection and climax capabilities, I’m stuck. The reason I went back on these drugs is that my wife wants me to wait six more months, and this is the only way to do it without losing my mind. I am truly suited for chastity right now.
My penis really does seem useless—unable to erect or orgasm properly. Sex has become entirely about her needs with no other option available.
I’ve heard other guys mention similar issues after prolonged denial: problems with both erections and orgasms. What do you think? Even on medication, I’m okay for the first four weeks. After that, it gets tricky, though I can live without climaxing for long stretches. My penis also turtling up needs coaxing to come out. It seems like the longer I go without releasing, the harder it becomes anyway.
What about you?