Introductions discussion

So… My wife and I tied the knot a bit over two years back (though we’ve been together for nearly ten). For some time, our sex life has been sliding downhill - we’ve experimented with different activities (primarily me taking charge of her - the biggest win was when she wore alluring lingerie while getting whipped) but most things didn’t last long. The primary problem has been my obsession with internet porn which has heavily dampened my desire for sexual activity and specifically for my wife - and I dislike that! So, a chastity belt came into consideration…;) When I brought up the concept to my wife, she was… intrigued. Surprised and puzzled by the idea of chastity-and-denial but very keen on her taking control in our sex life. That evening, we talked about what turns us on and off, ordered a CB-6000 - and my wife’s affectionate yet stern alter ego, Domina was born… and I experienced denial for the first time. Although not planned out… We were having intercourse (for three-four weeks actually) and after she finished, I kissed her neck and asked if I could finish. She looked somewhat bewildered and said that she felt it would be unfair to deny me on our very first night. “No, it’d be hot!” I told her… and then our four-year-old got out of his bed so I climbed off her before he entered our bedroom to sleep for the rest of the night with us.:p Two days later, the CB arrived, and we’ve been testing ring-size etc since then. I spent all of Friday and Saturday locked away (except for sex on Friday evening where my wife finished twice and I managed to mess up my orgasm in trying not to cum:confused:). Overall, I have to say I’m thrilled about the path ahead. In just a short while since we started talking about this, we’ve made big strides to close the intimacy-gap that had widened because my ‘needs’ were being met with the shallow release provided so easily by the world of porn. I want to improve myself, and I truly believe this is the only route. Also, the way my heart was pounding the first time I knelt before her, apologizing for not following a command as well as she’d expected… wow!:D Might_Be_Crazy