I have been wearing my lock almost constantly for the past two and a half years. My wife has done wonderfully, and I am truly grateful to her.
There are moments when life feels quite ordinary; being chaste means that just watching her get dressed in the morning is enough to make me hard as a wet lettuce! This can be annoying for her because she prefers to have her ‘kicks’ on her own schedule!
With demanding careers and children, our chastity routine tends to stay under the radar. However, I use specific imagery to keep things exciting. To be honest, if I showed my wife photos with typical captions from the internet, they wouldn’t impress her much since she would just laugh at them.
So, I look for what appears to be a ‘real’ woman who matches my wife’s build and size because that is more likely to get a positive reaction!
I have attached two examples below. Both use phrases my wife often says, such as ‘Oh dear there is that tone again!’ The first example fits the standard style you would expect, using similar wording to the second one. If I showed her just the first photo, she might tell me to stop fooling around and clean the oven. But when I actually presented the second one, she took it seriously and has since raised the bar!
My point is that if anyone needs a little push in nudging their middle-aged partner into this lifestyle, this approach could be very useful!