Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Hello all, I suppose I’m going to share a little complaint and/or pride. I hope that’s okay with everyone. Master and I have been practicing chastity for roughly three years now. It has certainly had its ups and downs for us both. We aren’t sexually active with each other; our bond is asexual yet possesses a definite level of intimacy. The approach to chastity here has been somewhat intermittent. I am married in the traditional sense, and my wife knows about my side relationship. For the first two years, I stayed chaste without using any device. Master’s rule then as now is that I am the one being denied; if my wife wants sex, I must not refuse her. I don’t cheat on this rule or try to get around my agreement with Master by having sex with my wife myself. I have stuck to my denial and won’t use that loophole. Personally, I enjoy masturbation more than PIV sex has always been the case. Fast forward to last year. I purchased a custom Steelworxx Steelheart device. It is incredibly comfortable. My wife was aware of my chastity desires but hadn’t cared much for them. So, I asked her if she minded me wearing a device constantly. She didn’t mind at all. I reported this back to Master and said “lock it up!” For most of the last year, I’ve spent more time knowing the inside of that metal cage than not. Usually, Master grants permission for me to masturbate about every 10 days or so. Sometimes as often as once a week, and my longest stretch was 23 days. November marked our third anniversary together. I offered her endurance denial between Thanksgiving (our anniversary) and Christmas as a gift. She accepted. I also haven’t had sex with my wife during this time, just because it hasn’t happened yet. another story Since I am usually a frequent masturbator, I never really found the pleasure of prostate massage before. One of Master’s rules is that when I video game, I must wear a butt plug. Because so much time had passed since I last masturbated, I felt this odd sensation while rocking around on my Njoy 2.0. OMG.. Did I just have an orgasm? It didn’t feel exactly like one but sort of did, and I was soft. I think I discovered milking! I naturally reported this discovery to Master. She wasn’t angry at all; in fact, she seemed quite pleased. She has always encouraged me to play with my behind as it serves to tease me more. Discussing this the other day, she was so happy that I can now milk myself, meaning there is no need for pleasurable touching of what I consider HER dick. Before finding this out, I had planned to beg for a release on New Year’s Day. During our chat yesterday, she made it clear she is content that I can relieve some built-up cum without needing me to experience an orgasm, so I won’t be leaving my metal prison anytime soon. As I write this, 36 days have passed since my last orgasm. My cage isn’t always on for other reasons related to work. In fact, I haven’t even seen it in 14 days! Be careful what you wish for. I don’t regret where I stand today but I will pout about it!:) I am a very lucky slave. in case you are wondering, no Master is not on this site