Journals and blogs discussion

We have playing with chastity for 6 months. Things go well then something happens and it fizzles out. We have been together for 13 years and have a good sex life. I always make sure she cums before i do. Anyway I’ve got a cage which fits well so we have started again and this time it feels more real. We started a couple of weeks ago and i was initially locked for 3 days to see how it went. All was good so i was locked until she wants me. We have had sex a few times in the last 2 weeks. She struggles to give me orders so we are slowly building her confidence. We have a book in which she can write in everyday with chores or if she wishes me to be in panties etc. I have printed loads and loads of articles and blogs for her to read as i suppose at the minute we are doing it my way and i want her to decide on how the relationship will progress. Hopefully in next couple of days i will be let out for a tease and denial session. She has never done this before as i think she thinks its cruel to tease me and not let me cum. She did try a ruined orgasm the other night and that went well Baby steps. But its so frustrating.