Introductions discussion

Hello everyone! A few days ago, after years of keeping my chastity under wraps and a couple of unsuccessful self-locking tries, I finally broached the subject with my partner of three years! She wasn’t particularly keen back then when I brought it up about a year prior. But now I’m giving it another shot. She’s fairly vanilla and not overly demanding sexually, yet lately I’ve noticed hints of dominance in her during our intimate moments, which aligns perfectly with what I crave. I explained why we should give it a go, hoping she’ll find some enjoyment in the process too. The result? I locked up two days ago and handed over the keys today! To add to the intrigue, we have separate homes. She can only unlock me when she visits my place. She doesn’t know every detail yet; should I guide her hand or let her figure out our dynamic independently? My main wish is that she enjoys it. She seems puzzled by how much pleasure I take from being denied and similar aspects. When exactly does the real frustration hit for a guy like me? o.O Appreciate you reading! -jjsissy Xoxo