Tonight is one of our scheduled sex nights. I appreciate knowing when the teasing will happen, as it helps me get through the rest of the week with the comfort that I’ll receive some sexual attention—even if it’s just teasing—which I truly enjoy. I was permitted to take my CB6000s off for a few hours because I complained about soreness upon waking up. Sleeping on my side caused the ring to dig into my thighs all night.
She gave me two hours of freedom, then asked me to lube up thoroughly and put them back in, this time using the medium size Points of Intrigue (POI). She knows that during the day, I’ll be trying hard not to get an erection as I anticipate tonight. Plus, I’m banished to my man cave where I am indeed looking at porn all day. There isn’t much else to do but post here.:)
I will be called out for dinner, and after I wash all the dishes and clean off the table, I have to take a shower, shave, and lay down on my bed naked, waiting for her to enter. She would let me know whether she wants me locked or not. If I see a whip, paddle, or crop on the bed that means at least 50 smacks on my butt. Usually more, as she is getting better at continuing despite my cries of pain. Last time it was 65 strokes but she aims to work up to 100 since she thinks I am adapting.
I can stay naked on my bed with arms by my side until she enters the room. The wait varies from ten minutes to two hours, depending on whether she is watching a movie on TV or just wants me to squirm in anticipation. Once, I made the mistake of yelling out to ask if she had forgotten about me and painfully learned never to do that again because she skips the teasing and gives only pain.
This is our normal routine for sex night. If we have an orgasm planned for my release day, it’s much different—it becomes romantic. I massage her entire body by candlelight while playing relaxing spa music from my iPhone through Bose speakers. I even bought a massage head rest that slips between the mattress and box spring to make it more comfortable for her. I’m quite good at massaging; I’ve read some books, watched videos, and had a professional masseuse who is married to my friend give me lessons right down to a happy ending using a mouth technique unfamiliar to me. It took a few more sessions before I learned it well enough.:) Long back story, and no one will believe me anyway.
Then comes dinner featuring her favorite foods followed by the usual cleanup, a shower, and shaving. This time she waits for me in bed wearing something sexy. The POI are really digging in now just thinking about it. Does anyone else have formal routines like we do or do you free style it? If so what is your ritual? I find rituals add significantly to my excitement and pleasure. Knowing most, if not all, of what’s coming is a lot of fun. How about you?