I anticipate our teasing sessions with the same enthusiasm I once had for sex prior to my chastity. It isn’t pegging or anything similar; it is pure, glorious edging that lasts roughly an hour, occurring two or three times weekly. While frustrating, this approach brings me great pleasure. My preparation involves showering, shaving, and brushing my teeth before lying in bed with nipple clips on the nightstand, waiting for my wife to join me. Her arrival can happen anywhere from 15 minutes to a full hour later, depending on which TV program she is watching. The entire experience feels like getting ready for a date with a new girlfriend, evoking that same rush of excitement I felt during my dating days. Although I always shower, my wife insists I do so immediately before sex, even if I had just showered an hour prior.
She might or might not instruct me to take off my CD based on her mood. The anticipation adds significantly to the thrill. Occasionally, she catches me by surprise and brings me to orgasm despite it not being the scheduled time; however, in recent months this has only happened once, specifically when she wanted to prolong my chastity period for longer. For me, teasing constitutes my primary sexual experience, and I have come to appreciate it more than our previous quick sex with an orgasm. It offers a full hour of pleasure rather than just ten minutes rushing toward release.
I encounter posts suggesting that teasing serves as both domination and punishment, potentially making men even hornier and more frustrated. Personally, however, it soothes me, giving the impression I have had an orgasm, though initially it did leave me with heightened desire. What role does teasing play in your relationship?