Hi, it’s been ages since I last lurked here for a couple of years. I’ve just joined because I finally shared my interest in chastity with my fiancée and would appreciate some advice.
To make a long story short: we have a vanilla relationship and have been together for four years. Last month, I told her about my fantasy. She handled it well—there was plenty of confusion and mixed feelings—but luckily she wasn’t repulsed. I ordered a Cb6000 after telling her, and she seemed pleased. During the first week, I pleasured her with both hand jobs and oral sex on a couple of nights; she didn’t complain about me Cumming either. She also noted that I’ve been more affectionate lately, so everything looked promising. After ten days, she allowed me to release.
I have now worn my cd for another nine days and pleasured her twice without getting relief myself, which suits me fine. My main issue is feeling somewhat forgotten most of the time. Some mornings she forgets where the key is, and honestly, she doesn’t tease me much at all? Do you think she’ll ever truly enjoy this lifestyle? It feels like she’s just going along with it to keep me happy. She did mention feeling a bit guilty when she climaxes while I don’t. In your view, is this hopeless, or do many kh-s eventually get more into it?
Sorry for the ramble! Thanks, Tom