Introductions discussion

Hi everyone! I’m a new member here. I signed up to connect with folks who are into chastity and understand the appeal. As a submissive within broader BDSM, my partner—who will be my keyholder—has already discussed this with me. So far, I’ve gone four days without an orgasm; he rewarded me after I begged and even touched myself without permission;). Sometimes this means swallowing his cum while watching him enjoy his release, or peeing in my mouth. It hasn’t been long yet, but he hopes we can build up to just one orgasm a month if I earn it! There’s also a specific room where I’m allowed to cum; if I don’t get led there, expect teasing and denial. Since receiving the order to stop;), I haven’t wanked at all. Lockpicking is a strong skill of mine, though 5-lever mortice locks and 14-lever safe locks have given me trouble; I still haven’t picked one of those yet. Most UPVC door locks take me only minutes at most—I’m basically my friend’s personal locksmith! Virtually all chastity devices are easy for me to pick open, but doing so ruins the fun completely. For my keyholder, it would be boring if I did that during our time in CB, and I’d honestly tell him about it. My KH insists on taking the keys with her when she leaves home while waiting for my holy trainer (HT) to arrive; personally, I prefer leaving them with him at his place until I return, but he wants me to keep going without the keys for this first trip away. If an emergency arises, I could either cut off or pick the lock in seconds; doctors can likely remove it quickly if there’s mortal danger. A steel device would prevent removal but wouldn’t be harder to pick. Trust and my partner’s happiness are huge turn-ons for me, so picking the lock is actually a bit of a turn-off… I felt so ‘at home’ wearing his device that I’d have stayed in longer had it not caused unwanted pain; being inside feels much better than being out! Until my HT arrives, I’m on the honor system. That’s what I’ll respect, and even if I slip up, I will be honest! Now, I am highly spiritual and walk the spiritual path daily. As a self-employed psychic reader and freelance photographer, I work with spirit and energy every day. The spiritual journey itself has been such pleasure, knowing life’s deeper meanings as they slowly leak into mass consciousness about why we’re here and what lessons this incarnation offers. My love for BDSM became clear to me when one of my karmic debts from past lives was power abuse. Major incidents have since cleared their karma, but some remains—this is where BDSM fits in. Trust is another key element… As part of my spiritual path and growth to resolve these issues, I find that spiritual kundalini energy is raw sexual energy (though most people limit it to the base chakra rather than letting it uncoil upward). Being chaste provides ample opportunity for this pent-up energy to rise. Since its drive comes from raw energy and a spiritual motive, enjoying BDSM even as a sub becomes very pleasurable: knowing I am pleasing my partner while being denied myself is delightful;), and he is lovingly dominant, keeping me in place! He’s also clearing karma through this process. Outside of kink, our relationship is completely equal with many lessons to share as we both walk the spiritual path together! Within agreed limits, I like following instructions knowing I am cared for by someone I trust entirely. Being tied down under his care excites me. So handing over keys and power to my partner turns me on because of its spiritual roots. Though this info recently reached my conscious mind from spirit, the subconscious already knew it applies to anyone who might resonate with such a dynamic. For ages, I tried denying that chastity suited me until a client—a reader herself—blurted out that I was into BDSM before now! Before then, I used wank up to four times daily sometimes, causing low energy and failing to retain raw long enough. A respected spiritualist suggested one month as ideal—which matches my KH’s ultimate goal too! I’d love chatting with locked guys and gals interested in connecting and working with energy especially those enduring longer lock-ups! Since raw energy also represents unconditional love, many chaste people become more loving toward their keyholders—a common theme indeed. I am gay myself… Another motivation behind chastity is showing devotion to a partner; saving it until the right person came along for this task served as my way of demonstrating commitment. This remains primarily why I embrace both BDSM and chastity! Looking forward to chatting more with everyone!