Introductions discussion

Hi all. This is a wonderful community. Mistress Watchful hosts us brilliantly, creating such a warm atmosphere. My wife and I have been exploring chastity and keeping our orgasms in check for roughly three years now. She tends to be quite conventional, yet she frequently shifts her perspective on matters, even if only partially. Initially, when I purchased my first dildo, she was not fond of it, but recently she actually asked me to use it on her. The CB3K wasn’t her favorite; she preferred a more open style and picked out the Gerecke Twister 2 for us. It’s well crafted and attractive in appearance, though she notes its weight as a minor drawback. She is becoming increasingly interested in locking me up. It has been about a month since I last climaxed, and she has noticed that I am leaking more than usual. Since I am not young anymore, I assumed nocturnal erections wouldn’t be an issue, but lately there have been several moments where the urge to cum was overwhelming and left me feeling quite frustrated. She isn’t keen on being disturbed when she’s sleeping. I expect things will settle down eventually before picking up again later, depending on factors like visits from the kids, family matters, and health concerns. So I am enjoying (!) this current stage while it lasts…