I am in a long distance relationship and have loved the concept of chastity for years, but I only recently purchased one: the HolyTrainer 2.
The main issue is that while wearing it, when I get an erection, the whole device tends to move forward with me. It doesn’t naturally return to its original position without some readjustment, and it allows my penis to slide out of the cage section somewhat easily. Currently, this means I cannot wear it for long periods.
I have less than 24 hours of experience with chastity devices (so don’t take this as a definitive review of the HT2 lol), so I am unsure how to fix this. I use a bit of lube—a cheap water-based jelly—to get inside, so maybe it dries out and creates a sticky residue that worsens the situation. Perhaps my cock is essentially trapped in the cage, so when it hardens, it pushes the entire device forward rather than pushing against the walls? Would better lubrication help, perhaps oil instead of water based? OR could my ring size be too big?
I have seen images showing this issue before, so I assume it is common, but I really hope there is a simple fix. Buying another device right now isn’t an option!