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I’ve recently begun to identify as submissive after being a switch for many years. I realized that within perpetual D/s dynamics, like the one with my wife, I am indeed submissive, and it simply “feels right” to call myself so. That said, I still possess strong sadistic tendencies and wouldn’t mind taking the lead for short periods—an evening, a day, or even a weekend. The issue is this: in the past, when those sadistic urges hit (whether from watching porn or just appearing out of nowhere), I would act on them by masturbating. But now that I am fully committed to chastity, I can no longer do that. So how should I handle these urges? I’m sure others have faced similar challenges in the past.