Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

My wife and I are fairly new to chastity, starting only a few months ago. We started off slow a few days at a time until we got to two weeks of denial. Today my wife said that she no longer felt any guilt or pity for not giving me an orgasm and liked things the way they were when I did not have one. She further stated that she no longer wanted to give me an orgasm on some arbitrary future date because that is what I wanted. She said that often she did not want to put up with my mood after an orgasm for the next 3-4 days and then wait another 4 or 5 days for me to get to the point where I was willing to do anything she wanted and no longer argumentative. There was also talk about how many times she made me cum when she was not in the mood and how it is her turn now to have orgasms when I did not. She also told me that since she always had her orgasm first because after I had one, I would go through the motions with her, she too lost interest after a few orgasms and just wanted to relax and not have to work on me.:) What ended up happening is that pointed out that our Valentine’s Day agreement only specified no orgasms for me until that day but did not say I would have one. Darn, I did not consider that. Anyway, she left it at denying me an orgasm for whatever period of time she wanted to and that would usually be if I was very obedient and did not piss her off and when it would contribute to her orgasm, not just because I wanted one or she felt obligated to give me one. I do not know how long she intends to deny me and now my eager anticipation of Valentine’s Day is ruined. Yet, I do not know if she will let me have an orgasm of if I am going to have to wait until she feels that she needs me to cum for her enjoyment. In the past, she did take pity on me which is why we had the no orgasm agreement in place. However, I did not anticipate what would happen after that. I assumed and assumed wrong. I am finding it easier to go without an orgasm for longer and longer periods of time and most times I am not wearing a CD. Only when she goes out twice a week. I find that as long as I do not watch anything stimulating, I am fine. Today I got an erection simply by watching some woman’s Olympic event where they wore tight pants that outlined their well toned butts. That is something that would never happen if I was having orgasms regularly. I told my wife that I felt like a teen again, getting hard with the slightest of stimulation. So now I am worrying about what is going to happen. We always had a day picked for my orgasm. Now there is no pre-determined day and the only thing she said she would do, is have sex with me twice a week on the days she wanted an orgasm so that I could enjoy sharing her pleasure and give her an opportunity to tease me, which she loves to do. I have no idea if she will be like she used to be and feel sorry for me and let me cum or if there is a new dynamic happening here. Time will tell I guess. Who else is kept in chastity for an indefinite period of time which could be short term or long term without you knowing?