Over the last several decades, my wife and I have explored different fetishes, weaving some into our everyday routine. Still, we always managed to switch off that kink mode and enjoy vanilla moments together. Occasionally a particular fetish can grow monotonous, so stepping away from it feels refreshing. Even when things aren’t getting stale, I believe being able to toggle between your kink side and normal life is wise.
While my wife likes taking the lead over me, she doesn’t want a husband who lives entirely within his fetish bubble. Periodically we go back to our regular dynamic and appreciate not having to play out dominant or submissive roles with each other. All the women who have sexually dominated me never wanted to do it nonstop; constant domination is tiring work for them too (the ladies in charge can confirm this).
What about your setup? Do you dial down the kink occasionally, or are you full-time?