Let me state clearly right away that I’m not a chastity extremist. Nor do I consider orgasms to be either “failures” or mere indulgences of male needs (for my part, they are tied to the F).
Within my relationship, I am under orgasm control, with frequency regulated. There are some instances of extended chastity sprinkled in, but no long-term denial.
It just struck me that on JAN 1, my Mistress could announce a total cap for how many orgasms I’m permitted throughout the year — and this figure would serve as a hard ceiling rather than a floor. For instance, if she chose 40, then 40 is the absolute maximum I can have. Plus, with every release I get, it’s deducted from that overall tally. Depending on which number is selected, this approach could suit a broad spectrum of practitioners.
Has any of you ever attempted something like this and stuck to it? If you had to choose a number that would fit well within your own relationship dynamics, what would it be?
I usually experience one spurt per week. Factoring in periods of chastity (which are generally short by the standards here), I likely get around 46 spurts annually. While I’m unsure of the exact past figures, maintaining strict accounting seems to add drama both at the start of the year and as it unfolds toward the end.
Mascara^Snake once proposed that a solid schedule for men is every fortnight. That works out to a neat 26. It would be quite a challenge for me personally, but I believe it’s achievable.
In any case, I’d appreciate your thoughts and comments on this topic. All perspectives are welcome.