Chastity device discussions and reviews discussion

Hey everyone! I’ve been reading around and I’m curious about the differences between trapped ball devices (those needing a base ring behind the testicles) and non-trapped ball ones like the PA-5000 or some Lori’s tubes. This matters to me because of how my wife and I handle chastity. She still loves penetration and having my penis available. I’ve had one for 10 years and am currently wearing a 4 gauge, so it is WELL healed!!! When the device comes off, it is usually for sex. However, I can only cum if she agrees (this morning she took me to the edge FOUR times before saying “enough”! God-I LOVE her!). So my ideal chastity device stays on during intercourse… My wife gets penetration and I get denial - a WIN-WIN scenario! Unfortunately, this is tricky with a trapped ball device because I usually have to be released. Using the PA for security feels impractical… It would be hard (though not impossible…) to remove an anchored PA device, put in jewellery, and then make love… ESPECIALLY spontaneously! A chain through the PA jewellery works as security… But honestly, I want a device that doesn’t need removal for sex… One that removes the need for a strap-on (which my wife is not [yet?] keen on…). Then I read a post here by someone with a ringless Lori’s device (#5 or #7?) who said he and his partner could have sex with it on, she gets a deep body orgasm while he cannot be stimulated… WOW!!!! How GOOD would THAT be!!!!!!!! I’ve never worn a non-trapped ball device before and am now curious about your experiences. Apart from the missing base ring, how do they work…? They seem to cover the frenulum, preventing male stimulation and orgasm. But it also seems they allow erections, unlike trapped ball devices that restrict them…??? So please educate me on the merits of non-trapped ball devices!! Like… How are they different in how they prevent male orgasm? orgasm. Can I wear one and REALLY have penetrative sex with my wife? How do I measure ACCURATELY for one? Do people have preferences based on their own experiences? Are they bulkier/less bulky than trapped ball devices? (Important as I am on my feet all day). Any OTHER information you would like to share… Including links to posts here or elsewhere! Thanks everyone in advance for all your help! With many thanks and my absolute kindest regards. J.