What about chastity gets you excited the most?

Hello everyone! I’ve been reading a lot of blogs and forums, I’ve also read “Be Careful What You Wish For” from Sarah Jameson and my conclusion is: everyone does it differently. So I wonder, what about chastity turns you on the most? What do you like in particular? As for me, I cannot imagine being locked up for a few months and only pleasuring my wife all the time without ever getting any kind of stimulation myself. My biggest fantasy is being denied my orgasm permanently, but being tied up and tortured by endless cock teasing right to the edge for a few hours at a time. I find that when I’m denied for some, I find great pleasure in letting my wife stroke my cock for just a couple of minutes and then stopping. She does that once a day just before going to sleep. Sometimes when I’ve already fallen asleep she wakes me and strokes my cock and then tells me to go back to sleep again (which is really hard to do of course:] ). I love it #-) So far I’ve been trying to control myself not to touch my penis without permission, as the cb3000 which I bought, broke some time ago (it just fell apart-guess it didn’t survive the pressure;] ). But as the denial lasts longer and longer, I cannot stop myself from touching my cock. I don’t want to do that, because it feels like I’m cheating on my wife (I agreed to give total control to her and she forbid me to touch myself). But sometimes I just can’t help the urge to do that. That’s why I decided to get some decent metal chastity device. After reading some reviews and consulting with Dietmar I’ve ordered a Steelheart 2 and am still waiting for it to arrive, it’s been 3 weeks since I placed the order, hope it gets here soon:-]