Defining the Ruined Orgasm

I suppose we should also define what counts as an orgasm? Clearly, a full erection with emission while uncaged qualifies. Penile-vaginal intercourse, blowjobs, hand jobs from her or you (especially if she’s watching), and so on all count = orgasm. Am I right? Hard to argue against that. But how about when caged? Does an emission there still count as an orgasm? Or do you see it more like a maintenance release because it misses the “HOLY CRAP” punch of a real climax? Lately, I’ve had a few orgasms while caged in what I think are her smaller cages. Specifically 32mm and 23mm ones. When inside these cages, quite a bit of the cock head sticks out through the bars when “up” (as much as the cage permits). This gives K enough room to stimulate or suck on it so that I can reach… what exactly? Neither of those instances had that eye-rolling WOW sensation of a true climax. They were still very pleasant and impressive though. Would you classify these as ruined? I’ve also experienced an uncaged “don’t cum” handjob where stimulation led to multiple releases before the final emission, but with no real feeling involved—just fluid pouring out. I’d definitely call that one a “ruined.” What do you all think?