Hi there. I usually read but rarely post here. My wife and I have been experimenting with orgasm denial for a few years, but last autumn she really got into it. It’s been nearly ten weeks since my last release. Everything so far has been based on trust, but we decided to try an actual chastity cage as a refreshing change. We locked me in last Saturday morning. For context: I’m definitely more grower than shower, and my testicles sit high and tight with quite some size. They were perched up high initially, so I had to take a hot shower to help them drop down enough for the ring to fit properly. Even then, when we first put it on Saturday, one of my balls wasn’t fully inside the ring while the other was sticking out completely.
I wore the cage for several hours afterward. Without any warning, intense pain hit the ball that was trapped outside the ring. It felt as if my body were pulling that testicle through the narrow space between the ring and the cage walls. The agony spread up into my stomach. I wasn’t doing anything active at the time; just standing in the kitchen works it out for me. Fortunately, my wife was nearby and removed the device quickly.
I took a break and re-applied it last night. This time, both balls were secured outside the ring. It wore comfortably for several hours until suddenly (while I was standing again) that same sharp pain returned in the other testicle. Once more, it felt like my body was dragging the ball through that small gap between the cage and the ring.
Does anyone have advice? Has this happened to you too?