I probably should’ve started this journal a while back. My wife, who holds the keys, has kept me locked for nearly a year now. I’ve been hesitant—perhaps unsure if it would last—to begin writing.
We are still relatively new to our second marriages, having both become widowed after our first ended in divorce due to infidelity. I’m just past my 50th birthday, and she is in her mid-40s.
I don’t remember exactly how the male chastity/cock cage arrangement began other than we were discussing our sex life and potential experiments. I had heard about male chastity and was somewhat interested for a while but wasn’t sure how to proceed; my late wife hadn’t shown much interest in trying such things.
After doing some research, I mentioned it to my current keyholder/wife, who did the same.
It was decided that I would lock up on Friday night so we could give it a try. The first night was slightly difficult because the cage didn’t fit perfectly. (I have gone through several cages since then, including a CB-6000S and now wearing one that fits well for long-term wear.)
Fast forward to today: almost a year has passed. I am locked 24/7, except when she wants to use “her” penis or during cleaning times. There have been periods of little interest from her, times when she mastered the art of tease and denial, moments where she ignores it completely, and instances where she grabs my cage to ensure I’m secured and remind me that it is hers. She has worn the key around her neck, hidden it away, and often hangs it on a jewelry holder as a visible reminder. Before this arrangement, I never imagined how satisfying it would feel being locked up—having someone control my erections and orgasms. It feels wonderful to have the urge, desire, and need to please my keyholder. She loves PIV sex and usually keeps me locked for about a week before wanting to use “it,” though there are times I stay longer. During those extended periods, I feel the “need” to touch her and provide pleasure. I’ve knelt at her feet begging just to rub them, seizing any chance to make contact. As we continue this journey together in this lifestyle, I hope she continues to enjoy the benefits of having me locked away for her amusement and pleasure. I’ll try to be more consistent with posting our updates.