Update. My wife discovered I was masturbating and realized she had lost her grip on me since I could climax whenever I pleased. She also noticed my low sex drive and lack of desire for her, which she misses. So I am back in the cage. She plans to let me out during intercourse. I saw both the surgeon and my doctor and indirectly learned that I can stay locked up indefinitely as long as I prevent skin infections with the cream he prescribed. However, she also found out that I no longer get erections even with Viagra use, and it takes a much longer time for me to reach climax. So her idea of us having simultaneous orgasms while getting me hard to arouse her won’t happen. In any case, I am once again locked in my small cage. This time, if I behave as a good husband, she will edge me but allow an orgasm. If not, she’ll tease me and withhold the release, reclaiming control over me.
My wife missed having power because she controlled my penis. She wanted that authority back, and with her doctor’s approval—who sort of guessed correctly when I discussed using devices on my penis sexually—we have a green light to proceed as long as I use his prescribed cream. Plus, surgery wasn’t scheduled until the end of January, which means I will be out of action for 2-3 weeks.
Original post below.
Due to medical issues and upcoming surgeries (I am 69), I won’t be able to lock up in my usual manner. My wife and I decided that since I’ll be recovering from one ailment or another, it’s best to just give up chastity play. So I will stop posting here. Nice group of people around. Wish you all ruined orgasms and constant arousal.:)